Indian singles are reshaping relationship norms, prioritizing love, compatibility, and personal choice over traditional expectations, according to Jeevansathi’s Modern Matchmaking Report 2025. Based on insights from over 21,000 respondents, the study highlights key shifts in partner preferences, financial expectations, and parental influence on marriage decisions.

The report reveals a notable gender-based distinction in relationship priorities—47% of men prioritize love and romance, compared to 29% of women. Instead, 39% of women place greater emphasis on compatibility, while only 11% cite financial stability as a key factor. Regional differences also emerged, with singles in Delhi and Mumbai valuing romance, while those in Bangalore leaned toward compatibility.

Shifting attitudes toward relocation for love were another standout trend. While 40% of singles are open to moving abroad for the right partner, parental expectations remain rooted in traditional values—70% of parents prefer their children to marry in India or return eventually. Mumbai, Pune, and Bangalore respondents were more accepting of NRI partners, whereas Delhi singles showed a stronger preference for those settled in India.

The report also sheds light on evolving expectations around marriage age. Singles under 27 believe the ideal time to marry is between 27-30 years, while older respondents and many parents now advocate waiting for the right partner rather than following rigid timelines.

Financial equality in wedding expenses is becoming the norm, with 72% of singles believing costs should be shared between partners. Only 17% think that the individual desiring a grand wedding should bear the cost, signaling a break from traditional financial burdens that often fall on one side of the family. Parental attitudes are also shifting in favor of this balanced approach.

The report underscores increasing autonomy in partner selection. Only 4% of respondents stated that their parents would solely choose their life partner, reinforcing the growing independence of individuals in marriage-related decisions. While parental guidance remains valued, the final choice rests primarily with singles.

Astrology continues to hold relevance for some, particularly in Delhi, where one in three respondents still consider kundli matching essential. In contrast, Mumbai singles prioritize personal compatibility over astrological alignment.

Rohan Mathur, Chief Business Officer at Jeevansathi, remarked on the findings: “Indian singles today are reshaping relationship norms, prioritizing compatibility and personal choice over traditional expectations. The Modern Matchmaking Report 2025 reflects this evolving mindset, highlighting a growing preference for love that aligns with individual values rather than societal pressures. As a trusted matchmaking platform, we remain committed to empowering singles to make meaningful connections and informed decisions.”